by Patrik Olterman | Nov 11, 2015 | Christian life, Family, Life is my religion, Polyamory, Relationships
In the wake of my most recent post on how love is not static I would like to add some thoughts on what has been called relationship anarchy, a term coined by Dr Andy in 2004. Dr. Andy writes: Relationship anarchy questions the idea that love is a limited resource that...
by Patrik Olterman | Nov 8, 2015 | Family, Life is my religion, Polyamory
Today is fathers day and I am promptly staying in bed, drinking tea and slowly looking at the world and my life with awe and wonder. Earlier in the week I had a lunch with a friend who told me that to boost her ego she would look at the girls from school who used to...
by Patrik Olterman | Nov 7, 2015 | Life is my religion, Polyamory, Sacred Sexuality
In the past week I have been in countless conversations about mine and Hanna’s chosen path. For the most part it has been deep and meaningful conversations where some parts of our journey and the sharing of it has been deeply healing for someone. Some conversations...
by Patrik Olterman | Nov 2, 2015 | Family, LGBTQ, Marriage & Relationships, Polyamory
Yesterday was a bit of a coming out process for me. The minute after I hit the publish key on my blog post was filled with a sense of immense release and freedom followed by “Oh my god, what have I done?”. For a moment I thought maybe not so many people would read it...
by Patrik Olterman | Nov 1, 2015 | Featured, Life is my religion, Marriage & Relationships, Polyamory, Sacred Sexuality
So if you have been reading my blog for a while you know that over the last couple of years I have deconstructed my faith and the Christian tradition me and Hanna have belonged to. This has included deconstructing our sexuality and the institution of marriage. This...